It’s Sunday morning!

I don’t know about you but I’m on my way to church. Whatever you decide to do today. Please make sure that you Thank God. Please make sure you are grateful. If you are struggling with something in your life right now you will overcome it and you will be okay because God has your heart in his hands. He hears your prayers. Just be patient! I hope you all have a wonderful blessed day!

Before you start to complain remember things could be worse.

Move in silence

Some people become jealous when you seem to be doing better than them. Some people are just negative. Some people pray on your downfalls. Keep your plans and goals to yourself until the time is right for you to express it. Some people will be happy for you and some people won’t. But don’t not worry about what other people think and do not let that stop you from succeeding.

8 ways to stop feeling sorry for yourself.

I feel most of the things that happen in my life I cause them on myself then when they becomes mistakes or I fail at something I’m very hard on myself. I had to stop feeling sorry for myself.

•Breath in and breath out. Do this as often as you would like.

•Accept your mistakes as lessons. Learn from them and do better.

•Stop blaming yourself. You aren’t the only one making mistakes. It’s okay!

•Looking forward to better days.

•Stop thinking negative. Turn those negative thoughts into positive ones.

•Do not hide away from the world. Get out and start making a change.

•Get a journal and write down your goals.

• Don’t throw a pity party and ruin the moods of others or expect anybody to understand. But it is okay to lean on a good positive friend for advice.

…..and most of all PRAY.

“Feeling sorry for yourself and your present condition is not only a waste of time but the worst habit you could possible have”

Single Mother

Lets keep it real, Motherhood is a challenging job and it becomes more challenging when your a single parent doing mostly every on your own while either the dad is not present at all or half the time present. What was once two parent how hold is not a a seperate parent household. I know most of us mothers did plan on being a “single mother” we wanted the family with the little picket fence and to live happily ever after. We bend over backwards for thier needs and wants. We comfort them, we love them and we spend most of our time with them. It can get very overwhelming and stressful at times especially when you have more than one kid and multiple other things to going on. Sometimes we want to cry, scream and just run away all at the same time but we are some strong indiviuals. Women take on so much and I don’t think enough credit is given for these beautiful souls God has created. We tackle any task in front of us when it comes to our kid(s) and we do NOT play about our kids. Even though that so called “baby daddy” is living his life with no concerns of his own child, We still don’t give him the satisfation to see us struggle or fail. They will not only have to answer to GOD but they will also have to answer to thier children AND TRUST ME I’m sure the grass isnt greener on the other side he’s struggling sis. LOL! Wish him well and continue to do whats best for you and your kid(s). DO RIGHT BY YOUR KIDS.

Any women can be a mother but it takes a bad ass mother to be a dad too

I live by this.

God is within her she will not fall/fail. -Psalm 46:5

I use to go to church every Sunday with my aunt when I was a child and my mom has us doing bible study every Thursday. I knew the Bible like that back of my hand. Once I got older I stopped going. I always knew GOD but I forgot about praise and worship. I only called on God when things where going bad in my life. Forgetting to be grateful. Forgetting to pray for the good things going on in my life. I recently rejoined church and on my way there I had a break down in my car and I gathered my self together and walked in and had a another break down. I don’t know what I was going through all u could remember is that it felt good to be in the presence of the Lord. I felt at home. Now I know “If you put GOD first you will NEVER be last” I live by that as a daily reminder. God will never put more on you than you can bare so you might be going through a tough time in your life wondering why things just keep happening to you. But it’s all means something in the end. We are being taught lessons everyday, Not to weaken us but to make us strong. You are here for a reason. Honey, You need to get right with yourself and get right with GOD. I’m not saying u have to attend church every Sunday but you need to seek worship and devotion and KNOW YOUR GOD. I don’t know about you but God has been good to be even on my bad days. Even when I’m stressed he has helped me overcome every obstacle in my life. I find the positive in everything. Start living your life the right way and watch the right things come into your life. GOD LOVES YOU and He will take care if you!!